Anonymous asked: Say you're pretty much in a relationship with a guy, you talk on the phone, skype, and see each other whenever you're in the same town (visiting home from school). But he won't put a label on the relationship. It's obviously not nothing if he's dropping the L word. Why are guys afraid to be committed to a girl?
He’s saying he loves you, assuming that’s the “L” word, because he is using you. Maybe not for sex- maybe just to stave off the inevitable feeling that creeps up on a lonesome night. But still, the reason for not putting a label is a fear of commitment, as if the label holds some sort of responsibility. If you love some one and the feelings are mutual, generally you don’t shy away from a relationship barring unique and rare circumstances.
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librapple said:
I had the same problem. Fuck people that play with your emotions, seriously. You’ll find out that you’re just wasting your time because they’re too afraid to commit. Leave before you are left and don’t get attached.
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